Let the dance of life begin

I am here to sound off on anything I feel I need to voice about as well as to share and to have others share with me. My sister locks are what got this started.... so here is to celebration of my 'nappy tresses, my sister locks' and indeed life with all it offers.

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Saturday, October 13, 2007

Had to Save this

This was posted on L-I-U and I had to save it for a constant reminder to myself!!!!

THE ROAD TO LOCDOM... What every locer should know: LOCING TIPS: No matter how you started your locs, texture, length, or stage of your journey- remember that these tips should apply to all loc wearers...

  • Locing is about patience, so it is a long term commitment that might last 2 years or more for the locing to be complete. Be 100% sure that this is the step you want to take.
  • Your hair (no matter what texture) will frizz during the process. Know that this is a normal process -all locers will have to go through this experience so relax and don't stress!
  • For people with looser curl textures or naturally straight hair, accept that frizz might always be part of the locing process.
  • Love those bumps! It adds character to your locs.
  • It seems no 2 people with afro hair has the same texture, naturally your locs will look different.
  • There might be times when you are feeling impatient, stressed, bored and negative about your choice in locing -don't worry, this is very normal -especially during the teenage phases when locs have their own mind. Take a deep breath and remember that this time will pass. Enjoy the journey, don't waste time on stressing over it!
  • Be prepared to learn a few lessons on the way and throw out your old perceptions of beauty.
  • Keep a loc journal to remind your Self how far you have come!
  • Collect headwear and experiment.
  • Your locs are unique and beautiful. No one else's locs will be the same as yours so don't compare your locs, just love and accept what you have.
  • Use products that are light so there won't be any product build-up in future.
  • If at any stage you are uncomfortable with what your loctician is doing to your locs, don't be afraid to be very clear and let them know or change loctician. Go with your instincts! They are your locs and you know whats best for them, so don't let others tell you otherwise. Your loctician should work with you, not against you.
  • NEVER use any products that contain mineral oil and petroleum as their ingredients.
  • Locing should not be an uncomfortable or unhygienic experience. Wash your locs regularly and always keep them clean.
  • Water is your best friend throughout the locing stages.
  • Healthy body, healthy locs.
  • Use minimal of products to avoid build-up.
  • If you're concerned about how the locs will look early on and/or that your loved ones will reject you if you decide to loc, then you shouldn't be considering them.
  • Be willing to accept any and all stages of locdom, including the negative reactions you may receive from family, friends, and strangers.
  • You are not alone - get support from good friends or other means (forums are great for this!).
  • There is a wide spectrum of locing techniques and methods, from the super cultivated locs to the super organic loc methods. Each is beautiful in their own right and no method of locing should be seen as 'more acceptable' or 'more beautiful' than the other.
  • Thanks sixftladyj for your insight and inspiration!!!!

one love still

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2 Comments:

Blogger ja stu sisterlock journey said...

VERY USEFUL INFORMATION, I NEEDED IT.

3:43 PM  
Blogger muslimahlocs said...

thanks for stopping by my blog and leaving a comment.
i love this post. especially the part @ how each and every head of locked hair will look totally different. this is one of the hardest concepts for folks to grasp, especially if you do locks and they look good. clients will want their hair to look exactly like yours regardless of their curl pattern or yours and may even be disappointed when it does not. i have had to learn to accept this as well. i have a loose/long curl pattern so i always have lock-envy whenever i see someone with a short curl pattern. their locks are so smooth and even. i had a client whose hair began to lock between the installataion and the first retightening. it took mine just under two years so i only gave the client a mean-i-want-hair-like-yours look when i was standing behind the client (lol).

12:45 PM  

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